Wedding vows are not simple words wasted in the thin air between you and your spouse-to-be at your ceremony. They are the very grounds on which you will want to build your marriage – your “rules”, if you wish. Thus, writing the perfect vows will be more than necessary (both when it comes to the meaning behind them and when it comes to making your guests feel touched by the love between the two of you as well).
So, how do you write vows that “WOW”? Here are some helpful tips for you:
- Don’t be afraid of the blank sheet of paper. Even the world’s most prolific writers have to face the dreaded “writer’s block” every now and again. Being afraid of a blank sheet of paper is not the answer though. If you want to write the perfect vows, leave aside the thought that you are facing a blank sheet of paper and simply write down your thoughts. Polish what you have written by selecting the best ideas and re-wording everything so that it sounds beautiful – and you will have the best vows possible.
- Let your emotions speak out. You are marrying the man/woman of your dreams – so you are definitely filled with amazing feelings towards him/her! Let them speak through your vows! You don’t need to be very fancy and you don’t need to write Shakespearian poetry – as long as it comes from the heart, it will be beautiful.
- Take inspiration from religious vows. Even if you don’t plan on having a religious ceremony, you can definitely inspire yourself from the religious vows. Every religion has its own type of vows – and they are all absolutely beautiful in terms of what they express!
Fiori di Miele focuses mostly on European-style weddings, so you can definitely rest assured that yours will be elegant and stylish if you choose to work with us! Contact our planning experts and find out more about our services!